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New member with a sob story... [17 Dec 2007|12:47am]

[ mood | blah ]

My name is Samantha, and the last time I was in a relationship that lasted longer than 2 weeks was with a guy who emotionally abused me and raped me at one point. Since then I've had a transformation, I've been going to therapy, I strted wearing makeup, I changed my hair, and I started dressing better. Now guys hit on me all the time, but I haven't found a single guy that actually likes me and doesn't just want to fuck me. So here's my most recent sob story:

So I was infatuated at first sight with this guy named Leo. He was the most attractive guy I ever had a chance with, and he was perfect. One night we were drunk together watching a movie, and we started to cuddle, and then we were spooning, and then we were kissing, and it was perfect and wonderful and then things started to go further and I stopped him and said "I'm not the kind of girl who has casual sex, I'm the kind of girl who has relationships." He said "Fair enough, thank you for being honest." We kept kissing, and I ended up staying the night with him in his room (I'm in my first year of college by the way) and we cuddled all night. It was wonderful. This continued for two weeks until I spent the night with him when he was really drunk. He was clearly upset about something, and after I pestered him for a while he finally told me that he didn't think I really cared about him, and I of course told him how much I like him, and he said he liked me back. He opened up to me about how much he'd been hurt previously and that he had trust issues with women, and I told him that I'd had similar problems. I felt like we were really connecting for once. But after a while he turned away from me and I started to cry. I was cold and lonely and I felt unwanted by him, so I got up to leave. As I was getting dressed he woke up and asked me where I was going, and I told him that I felt unwanted. He pulled me back into bed with him and wouldn't let go of me, finally he said "You're ridiculous. You're ridiculous for feeling unwanted. I can't think of anyone I'd want to be with more right now." I think I fell in love with him then. A couple days later I decided to open up more to him, and I told him very briefly about my previous abusive relationship, and I didn't see him again for the next 2 weeks. He was avoiding me, and I thought I would die. I wanted to die. Finally he cornered me at dinner and said that he'd wanted to talk to me for a long time but was scared that if he tried to I'd only yell at him. I told him that I did still want to talk, and we did the next day. He told me that he'd realized I was getting too attached to him and that he doesn't get attached very easily. Basically it freaked him out, and he panicked. He said he did like me, and he apologized a hundred times for what happened, and he said that he's usually the guy this happens to. We hugged and decided to be friends. I still see him around, but not as much as I used to. I miss him so much, and I spend every second hoping with all my heart that he'll walk through the door, while simultaneously praying he won't. Right now I'm on vacation back home for a month and I'm hoping that that much seperation will be enough to make me get over him, but it's unlikely.

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get a date [28 Jan 2005|04:50pm]

how come no one ever posts here? Jeeze us dateless losers have no hope....
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[28 Jan 2005|02:18pm]

someone take me on a date
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[09 Jan 2005|02:16am]

[ mood | apathetic ]

OMG!!... I forgot to let everyone know..
This ugly bitch ( me) Has boyfriend. :/
almost two weeks, babey..
but don't kick me out of the community-
Krissie is rejected by everyone else in the world..
It's hard being God >:)
but I'll manage
Love you all!

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new here [08 Jan 2005|06:16pm]

[ mood | content ]

Hey people im new here, my name is Tiffany..i have 0 luck with guys, i never get any dates, ive only had 2 boyfriends and they didnt even last 6 days....jeeze eh? how sad....anyways, i just wana say, those application things are REALLY annoying, mainly because i dont have like any pics of myself, and i dont know how to LJ cut, so yeah thanks for not having that haha

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[28 Dec 2004|07:33pm]


join, kiddos. join.
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[25 Dec 2004|10:38am]

ummmm i think maybe half of the people in this club are not so much rejected anymore.well....besides me of course. thanks
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a post 0.p [24 Dec 2004|02:16am]

[ mood | bored ]

I have the worst news EVER.
We have a bogus member! *cougH* BOOOOTTYGORRAAWWR!
mine. mm hmm. off limits. :D
too bad for all the womans

plow jets~

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-sigh- [06 Dec 2004|07:21pm]

[ mood | apathetic ]


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Narnarnarnar....NARNARNAR!!! [05 Dec 2004|09:17pm]

I just figured I'd post here because this place is deader than Stevie Wonder's eyeses. So....who's still sans-significant other? Who isn't?
Better yet, everyone post your best sob stories. The winner recieves an excessive amount of oral gratitude.
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[11 Nov 2004|10:50pm]

THATS RIGHT !!!!!!!!!!!!
two more days until the return of rushmoore at the skatepark of memphis located of trinity road off of germantown parkway in cordova starts at 7 sharp so be there early 7 BUCKS TO GET IN

also new rushmoore shirts available HOTT OFF THE PRESS!!!!!!! NO ONE HAS THESE SHIRTS YET!! BE THE FIRST TO GET ONE!!



BE THERE!!!!!!!

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[09 Nov 2004|07:45pm]

So lookee here, it's my first post. So why am I a dateless wonder? Easy! Like most dateless guys, I'm a nice guy. Unfortunately, I haven't yet come across that one "prefers-nice-guys-over-regular-guys" girl; with my luck she's probably already been hit by a train or some other catastrophe. Whenever I do meet a new girl, things always progress nicely until BAM! I'm in Friends-ville, and there's no fucking escape.
Unlike some of the other posters' comments here, I don't feel I NEED a date. Not right now anyways. I've come to terms with being a single loser, even at 19.

I don't know if it counts or not, but I have had a long-term relationship, but it was effectively ended last X-mas when I walked in on the girl of my dreams in mid coitus. Blargh.

When I do get crushes on girls they are looooooooooong crushes on people with whom I have absolutely no chance, and they frequently let me know this. Well....I guess that's it. Thanks for listening to my crapCrapCRAP!
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[11 Oct 2004|01:02am]

so dead.
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[27 Sep 2004|12:43pm]


anyone want to be my boyfriend?
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[21 Sep 2004|01:28pm]


click this or dieCollapse )

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[04 Sep 2004|01:43pm]

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[03 Sep 2004|05:24pm]

[ mood | contemplative ]

Okay I was asked out (supposedly as friends but I'm thinking he would have taken it as a slight sign) the guy who i really likes best friend. So yea. When I want the prince to come a knocking, i get the royal advisor. Not that the guy I like is a prince...on any level whatsoever. So, yea. Ugly and alone. Doot.

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[30 Aug 2004|09:49pm]

why am I such a loser.

someone please answer this for me
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Losers....rejoice [29 Aug 2004|12:13pm]

Hey, guess what. I figured half of us losers have sexy hair, so why not flaunt it.

C'mon. You know ya wanna.
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Being 19 Sucks [24 Aug 2004|03:34pm]

Turning 19 sucks because when you look back at everything and what you did. I'm still single because of the job I have. Always moving and not staying in one place. I have to start over with friends and it gets harder and harder because as I get older it doesn't improve with freedom but more responsiblity. I wish the times where I could go out and hang out with people. Now I'm just stuck here at home because my friends either have school or work. Its a matter of choice because one day I'll get my freedom so don't waste your moments.
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